Confidence-led Keynote Speaker, Workshops & Coaching
Isabel Esteviz Keynote Speaker Executive Presence Training
6 ways lack of confidence
kills productivity and costs you
They’re your rockstars on paper.
But behind the scenes, they're crumbling in silence: burnout, doubt, pressure -
all wrapped in late hours, a forced smile and worst of all, with no one to turn to.
You may not see it, but it will cost you. In growth, in retention, in hiring...
Do you or someone you know relate?
#1
CCO
Chief Critic Officer
Your quiet inner critic screams in judgment of others.
#2
The
Perfectionist
Second-guessing delays results. Every pause has a price.
#3
Validation
Junkie
Polling 20 people? That’s not clarity. That’s fear masked as certainty.
#4
Creature of
Comfort
Only playing games you know you’ll win? That’s not growth. That’s boredom.
#5
Copy/Paste
Confidence
Comparison doesn’t just steal joy.
It creates carbon copies.
#6
Mean Girl
Mentality
Low-confidence loves company...
especially the kind that gossips and gets nothing done.
57%
of employees have quit because of a poor manager.
Low-confidence leadership drives real attrition and it's rarely called by name.
$550B
Lost every year in productivity due to disengaged employees.
The #1 driver?
Weak leadership and poor communication.
200–400%
The true cost of replacing a senior leader.
That’s 2–4x their salary
burned in lost productivity, hiring, and ramp-up time.
I'm here to help
Single mom. Corporate Executive. Entrepreneur. Confident AF.
Let’s be clear...I didn’t start out this way.
I was broke, burnt-out, overweight, frustrated, anxious, ADHD-brained, stuck and lost.
On the surface though? All smiles!
Went above and beyond.
Cheered everyone else on.
Played small so others could feel big.
Said "Yes!" when I really wanted to say "No."
I was externally successful… but internally bankrupt.
And I was everyone’s savior but my own.
Then came the crash-out:
I was passed over for a major promotion.
Regained weight I fought to lose.
Wore myself out people-pleasing.
Snapped at every minor inconvenience.
And, unknowingly, spreading that negative energy to the people I cared about most.
At my lowest (but still “rockstar” on paper), it hit me:
No one was coming to save me.
It’s the quiet truth no one tells high-achievers:
Leadership often means there’s no one in front of you to anchor to.
It’s just you… vs. you.
So I decided to save myself.
Through deep research, therapy, and a whole lot of personal battle-testing, I found the sweet spot I’d been chasing externally:
Unshakable confidence, fused with self-worth.
It rewired my thinking and became the catalyst for every area of growth:
Professionally. Personally. Deeply.
This transformation showed me real change was possible. I knew I had to help other high-achievers, leaders and entrepreneurs get there too.
So I created:
3 A.M. Confidence™.
It’s foundational confidence that never sleeps.
The kind that thrives in the dark
when you need it most.
Real confidence is firm trust.
And when you have that kind of trust?
It’s always there for you...
even when others aren’t, and even when the odds are stacked against you.
So if you, your team, or your organization is silently struggling, let’s talk.
3 A.M. Confidence™ taught through keynotes, workshops, or 1:1 coaching might be exactly what you need…
to silence what’s keeping you up at night.
Isabel Esteviz is a Global Fortune 500 executive, former journalist, and single mom of three.
She’s the founder of IOIT2U™ and the creative force behind 3 A.M. Confidence™, the framework helping high-achievers ditch the performance and lead with the kind of confidence that doesn’t sleep, even in the darkest hours.
Give your audience more than motivation.
Let's serve transformation.
Format: Available in-person
or virtual.
Length: 60 Minutes
(45-50 Minutes + 15-10 Minuets for Q&A)
Target Audience: Ideal for high performers, entrepreneurs and leaders who may seem confident on the outside, but quietly wrestle with burnout, perfectionism, or imposter syndrome.
Topics can be modified into a workshop for an immersive deep dive experience.
If you’re looking for a motivational speaker… I’m not it.
I don’t do surface-level hype.
You can forget feel-good fluff.
And I definitely don’t do “buy my book” energy.
I specialize in transformation that lasts long after motivation fades.
As someone who loves listening to speakers, I’m not here to just make people feel good for 45 minutes, I’m here to move them to act like their seat is HOT.
That type of change takes more than motivation.
It takes clarity, confidence, and action.
When you book me, you don’t just get a speaker.
Your audience gets:
✅ Frameworks to apply immediately
✅ Real-life hard earned lessons, and
✅ Easy-to-follow strategies that help people get to the root of their challenges, at work and at home.
Your company or conference gets:
✅ Increased engagement
✅ Less burnout
✅ Lower attrition (My HR brain comes free of charge.)
3 A.M. Confidence: The Missing Skill Holding Back Communication, Leadership, and Resilience
Do you know someone who second-guesses, delays decisions, or hides behind perfectionism?
That’s not a leadership gap. Or a resilience gap.
It’s a confidence trap; and it’s keeping your highest performers up at night.
It shows up in missed deadlines, silence in meetings, and leaders stuck managing instead of truly leading.
In this keynote, Isabel introduces 3 A.M. Confidence™ a framework built for the moments when confidence is tested most.
Isabel unpacks the psychology behind unshakable self-belief and shares real-world strategies your audience can apply immediately.
Through powerful stories and practical tools, they’ll learn how to lead with presence, act boldly, and influence with clarity even under pressure.
Because when people believe in themselves deeply, quietly, and consistently, everything changes.
2 / HUMAN Resources: Building Confidence, Connection & Influence in a World of AI
AI crunches numbers. But, can it move hearts and minds?
In a world where technology owns information, human connection through storytelling, emotion, and presence is the new must-have skill.
In this keynote, Isabel shows your audience how to communicate with impact: crafting messages that stick, resonate, and inspire action.
Whether leading teams, pitching ideas, or influencing at scale, this session builds the storytelling muscle AI can’t touch.
3 / The Fighter in YOU! The Four Part Framework to Overcome Any Obstacle and Succeed
What’s standing between you and your next level?
Lack of goals, weak network, and fear of failure are the silent killers of growth and productivity. Ready to fight back?
In this keynote, Isabel breaks down a powerful 4-part framework to shatter invisible barriers, reframe failure, silence self-doubt, and ignite bold action - no matter what life throws your way.
Ways to develop
3 a.m. Confidence
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Keynote Speaker
High-energy, story-driven talks designed to spark mindset shifts and inspire immediate action. Perfect for conferences, off-sites, or company-wide events.
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In-person or virtual
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Larger Audiences 100+
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Lengths: 45-60 min + optional Q&A
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Topics: Leadership, Confidence, Connection, Resilience
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Outcome: Leave your people inspired and ready to show up differently.
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Workshops
Hands-on sessions that go deeper. Built to develop soft skills in a high-trust environment through practice, feedback, and transformation.
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In-person
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Mid-size groups 20-40
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Formats: Half-day, Full-day, or Series
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Topics: Personal Brand, Storytelling, Confidence, Executive Presence
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Outcome: Real skill-building, not just inspiration.
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1:1 Confidence Coaching
Personalized strategy sessions for individuals or small teams who want to elevate their executive presence and message clarity with impact; not overwhelm.
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Virtual or In-person
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1:1 or small group engagements
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Message development, delivery refinement, and communication audits
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Outcome: Show up with clarity, confidence, and influence: on stage, in rooms that matter, and everywhere in between.